Life style Lolita, 52 week challenge part 3

Lifestyle lolita

What is a lifestyle lolita?

 and do I consider myself to be a Lifestyle lolita?

I found it hard trying to answer this weeks topic. I've never considered myself to be a lifestyle lolita nor do I go out of my way to make sure everything I do is related to lolita somehow. However, I guess that it doesn't rule out any habits or hobbies I have that could be considered

I've looked into the definitions or rules and found a lot of different opinions about what make a lifestyle lolita.

F Yeah Lolita has some posts including this one about the notion of a pure maiden.

Now to the question, do I think of myself as a lifestyle lolita?

The answer is no not really but I do think I do some of the things that would be considered as a lifestyle lolita be they behavior or pastime.

princess-living. has a short list of things a lolita lifestyler might do or rules she might follow which I have copied below. I found the list to encompass the ideas I have about what makes a lifestyle lolita

Set of behaviors:
Be caring to everyone. Always have a pleasant attitude. Never forgot your manners. Be thoughtful of your words and actions. Be lady-like in everything you do.
Values:
honesty, creativity, beauty, happiness, confidence, grace, charity, education, refinement, modesty, sophistication, elegance

Self image:
A modern day rococo princess. A little lolita, a little hime, a little preppie, but completely me. ❤

Social relations:
local friends, meet-ups, galcir, forums, blogosphere, pen pals, conventions

Entertainment:
meet-ups, movies, books, dramas, fashion show, picnics, GLB, trips, calligraphy, para para, crafting, blogging

Work:
Most anything not hard labor intensive. Laboratory assistant, mental health worker, office worker 

Dress:
skirts, blouses, cute shoes, heels, cute purses, jumperskirts, capes, boleros, pearls, shorts, dresses, hair accessories, bows, deco nails, heels, parasols, adorable coats, fabulous sunglasses

Activities/interests:
tea parties, shopping, fashion shows, picnics, conventions, panels, photography, movie reviewing, carriage rides, walks, trips, festivals, caroling, blogging, archery, horse riding, 

Habits:
acting proper, following etiquette, buying fashion magazines, checking brand stores, searching Y!Japan, maintaining beauty, crafting
  
Tastes:
pastel colors, antique items, cute items, sweets, princess-like items, tiaras, pearls, diamonds, 

Things I like that are lolita lifestyle are things like high tea, sewing, crafting, going to meet ups, and trying to bring the aesthetic into my everyday life a little although I don't attempt to lolify everything just my bedroom at the moment. 

I love things like high tea (doesn't every lolita?) which I had the other day but I'll save that for my next post. 

52 week lolita challenge part 2

This time its 5 Movies for lolitas!

I have picked 5, some of them I haven't seen yet but they look like they would be fun to watch.

1) Kamikaze Girls

This is the film everyone mentions first, I have seen it twice. 

I won't write out the plot but it features a lolita who loves Baby the Stars Shine Bright and who makes an unlikely friendship with a girl in a motorcycle gang. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kamikaze_Girls#Film

2) Mister Rococo

Mr Rococo is a short film about a girl who meets a guy and changes herself from a Lolita into a Lolita wrestler! Its really quite cute and funny

watch it here on YouTube

3) Marie Antionette

If like me you love Rococo inspired lolita then Marie Antionette is a must see. The costumes are beautiful throughout the film. 

4) Gothic & Lolita Psycho

I haven't seen this film but I've seen the trailer, it looks like a fun cheesy horror. I would like to watch it after seeing the trailer. 

It features a gothic lolita with an armed bulletproof parasol!!

5) X-cross

Another Japanese horror that I haven't seen but it has a sweet lolita serial killer so its going on my to watch list even if it is bad.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/X-Cross

Are there any other films you think a lolita should watch? 

I'd love to find out about some more.

Lolita 52 week challenge part 1

So I had planned on making a shiny new blog but I don't like wordpress so much so I'm back here and I wanted to join in an do the lolita 52 week challenge, it has a deadline which I missed but hey lets go anyway. 

1.  5 pieces that every Lolita wardrobe should have, regardless of style
2.  5 movies for Lolitas
3.  What my own Lolita lifestyle is like 
4.  Favorite thing to put on my head
5.  My wardrobe turnover
6.  My favorite Lolita brand
7.  Why I wear Lolita?
8.  Why don't I wear Lolita more often?
9.  5 keywords that describe my personal Lolita style
10.  How I first found out about Lolita
11.  3 trends I wish would come back
12.  Combining other fashions with Lolita
13.  Lolitas I have met in real life
14.  Lolitas I would love to meet
15.  3 things I wish I was told when I was a new Lolita
16.  10 facts about my Lolita wardrobe
17.  My first meetup
18.  Trends I thought I would never get into, but I now love
19.  Trends I thought I loved, but now I'm not too keen on
20.  How satisfied I am with my current wardrobe
21.  Plan for a trip! A week's worth of Lolita outfits I can fit in a small suitcase
22.  How I accessorize
23.  What influences my Lolita style
24.  What's in my makeup bag
25.  Best places to wear Lolita
26.  How I get out of a wardrobe slump
27.  Purses that I love
28.  Bloomers or no bloomers?
29.  Lolitafying things in my everyday life
30.  How long it took me to build a complete wardrobe
31.  Impulse buys that were totally worth it
32.  My best deal
33.  Something that I made
34.  Wardrobe blunders! Things I bought that I ended up regretting!
35.  What I thought when I got my first real piece of Lolita
36.  Nails to match my favorite looks
37.  Something that's not my style, but I love anyways
38.  Favorite hair style
39.  Most versatile Lolita item I own
40.  5 inspirational fictional characters
41.  Fondest meetup memory
42.  The ways in which I fit the cliche
43.  The ways in which I do not fit the cliche
44.  How strangers react to my clothes, and how I react to their reactions
45.  Something that was a gift
46.  Parasols: Vital or frivolous?
47.  The item in my wardrobe that was the hardest to get
48.  My "signature" outfit
49.  My favorite Lolita print
50.  What's in my closet, but I haven't worn yet!
51.  Predict the next Lolita trend!
52.  How Lolita has changed me

I plan to do the list in order for ease so I don't forget any. 

1) 5 pieces that every Lolita wardrobe should have, regardless of style

The first and most important item in any lolita wardrobe should be a good petticoat, an A line one for classic and a cupcake one for sweet. Which petticoat you need will depend on your main style, I have mostly A line petticoats as well as a longer one for my dresses that are below the knee.

Good petticoats can be found on Taobao, Dear Celine and Classical Puppets

The second thing a lolita wardrobe should have is a really good fancy blouse, one that will dress up the plainest of JSKs.

I love Baby the Stars shine Brights blouses, they are so fancy!

I prefer chiffon to cotton and I don't like petter pan collars but the choice of blouses is so much better than it used to be and you can get so many different colours too. 

Your choice should depend on your style, so if you like sweet go for an Angelic Pretty one that will coord with most of your dresses.

My personal favourites are these two

Btssb dear juliette and AP melty royal chocolate blouses

The third thing every wardrobe should have is a go to plain non print OP

They are so easy to wear! no need to worry about blouses matching or boleros!

The first brand dress I ever bought was Btssb Trianon OP 

Plain OPs are something you can wear again and again and you can change the look with different accessories and tights. 

Shoes! every lolita should have a great pair of shoes, again what you pick will depend on your personal style.

I like small ankle boots, they can look cute or elegant depending on the style of them.

I have some Victorian Maiden ones and they go well with my wardrobe

Similar open ankle boots in a more cute style from Btssb

Finally I think every lolita should own a bonnet, I think they suit most people and make an outfit into an OTT one in an instant.

My personal favourite has to be Triple Fortune, sadly its hard to get their bonnets outdide Japan but KeraShop sometimes has them for special reservations

They come in lots of colours so there is one for everyone.

This is mine

So there you have it week 1 of the 52 week challenge complete